Real to Me

by Minh Lê (Author) Raissa Figueroa (Illustrator)

Reading Level: 2nd − 3rd Grade

An acclaimed author and a Coretta Scott King Honoree pair up for this tender story about friendship and accepting change.

Two best friends (one of whom is imaginary) are inseparable until the day when one of them unexpectedly disappears.

Others tried to tell me that she wasn't real, that she was just imaginary. But what did they know? She was real to me.

Then one morning... she was gone.

What do you do when your imaginary friend goes away?

Did you dream up the entire friendship? Maybe... But you miss her laugh, her comfort, and her silly mischief. It all feels so real... you couldn't have just imagined those things, right?

Lush illustrations pair with touching text in this gentle picture book that illuminates the sweetness of first friendship, the sadness when it's lost, and the beauty in discovering new friends are just around the corner.

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Kirkus

A friend is a friend, and while the twist is clever, the robust storytelling throughout will prove the book’s greatest lure.

ALA/Booklist

An insightful and delightful take on the imaginary-friend concept, while highlighting what it means to have--and be--a real friend.

None

[A] heartwarming story.

Publishers Weekly

"When you have a great friend," Lê (The Blur) begins, "the rest of the world can seem to disappear." In digitally created spreads, Figueroa (We Wait for the Sun) imagines a Black child in a purple dress perched atop the head of a green, furry creature whose wide-eyed expression signals pleased anticipation. The two seem to launch a small, light airship that whizzes off into the air. "Others tried to tell me that she wasn't real, that she was just imaginary," musing lines continue, as the duo dash across a bridge in the moonlight, firework-like blooms glowing beneath them. "But what did they know?... My friend was always there for me, and I can't image anything more real than that." Following pages of adventures, the friend disappears one morning. The book's narrator grieves--whether or not the friendship was present for others, the bond and loss are real--until healing begins and new friends appear. To Lê's simply told, heartfelt reflection on childhood bonds, Figueroa adds two rich, unexpected dimensions: a dramatic, luminous visual universe, and a narrative twist likely to tweak readers' initial assumptions about the imaginary. Ages 4-8. Author's agent: Stephen Barbara, InkWell Management. Illustrator's agent: Natascha Morris and Tracy Marchini, BookEnds Literary. (May)

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School Library Journal

K-Gr 3—This story of a special friendship between a monster and a young girl gently introduces the sometimes-sad reality of changing relationships. Despite others telling the narrator that he is simply imagining the friend, the pair does everything together, with the narrator repeating the line "She was real to me." One morning, the narrator discovers the other is missing. Despite searching everywhere, the dear friend is nowhere to be found. The narrator is devastated at the loss and misses the comfort of his old friend. With time, though, our hero makes new friends, and finds himself doing the same things with the new crew as he did with his old friend. He misses his first friend but finds solace in imagining all of the wonderful things she may be doing and drifts to sleep beside his monster pals. The magical illustrations complement the themes of imagination and childlike wonder well. The story begins a bit predictably; the pace is reignited when it is revealed that the narrator is actually the monster. VERDICT To adult readers, this sweet story gently conveys the inevitable pains of changing relationships, but this theme may be lost on young children; share with older elementary children instead.—Ellen Kleber

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Review quotes

★ Any youngster who has felt the pain of putting away childish things will find this an emotionally palpable, thoughtful story. —The Bulletin, starred review 
Minh Lê
Minh Lê is the author of several children's books including Drawn Together, which won the 2019 Asian/Pacific American Award for Literature, and Lift which was an Eisner Award Nominee. His other books include Let Me Finish!, The Perfect Seat, and The Blur. Minh has written for the New York Times, the Horn Book, and the Huffington Post. He currently lives in San Diego, California with his wife and kids. Visit him online at minhlebooks.com or on Instagram and Twitter @bottomshelfbks.

Raissa Figueroa is the illustrator of several picture books, including We Wait for the Sun, which received a Coretta Scott King Honor, as well as four starred reviews. She also illustrated Oona, Princess Unlimited, Sophie and the Little Star, and The More the Merrier. She loves taking in the early morning light while out on walks with her dog, Ghost, and letting her mind meander off to fantastical new places. Visit her online at rizzyfig.com
Classification
Fiction
ISBN-13
9780593377499
Lexile Measure
650
Guided Reading Level
-
Publisher
Alfred A. Knopf Books for Young Readers
Publication date
May 02, 2023
Series
-
BISAC categories
JUV039060 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Friendship
JUV051000 - Juvenile Fiction | Imagination & Play
Library of Congress categories
Picture books
Imaginary playmates
Imaginary companions
Adjustment (Psychology)
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